Update to protobuf v1.25 and grpc 1.35; bump CI to go1.12

From:
github.com/golang/protobuf v1.3.2
google.golang.org/grpc v1.17.0

To:
github.com/golang/protobuf v1.4.3
google.golang.org/grpc v1.35.0
google.golang.org/protobuf v1.25.0

About the two protobuf packages:
https://developers.google.com/protocol-buffers/docs/reference/go/faq
> Version v1.4.0 and higher of github.com/golang/protobuf wrap the new
implementation and permit programs to adopt the new API incrementally. For
example, the well-known types defined in github.com/golang/protobuf/ptypes are
simply aliases of those defined in the newer module. Thus,
google.golang.org/protobuf/types/known/emptypb and
github.com/golang/protobuf/ptypes/empty may be used interchangeably.

Notable Code Changes in zrepl:
- generate protobufs now contain a mutex so we can't copy them by value
  anymore
- grpc.WithDialer is deprecated => use grpc.WithContextDialer instead

Go1.12 is now actually required by some of the dependencies.

lazy.sh

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ godep() {
     cat tools.go | grep _ | awk -F'"' '{print $2}' | tee | xargs -tI '{}' go install '{}'
     set +x
     popd
-    if ! type stringer || ! type protoc-gen-go || ! type enumer || ! type goimports || ! type golangci-lint || ! type gocovmerge; then
+    if ! type stringer || ! type protoc-gen-go || ! type protoc-gen-go-grpc || ! type enumer || ! type goimports || ! type golangci-lint || ! type gocovmerge; then
         echo "Installed dependencies but can't find them in \$PATH, adjust it to contain \$GOPATH/bin" 1>&2
         exit 1
     fi