transport/{TCP,TLS}: optional IP_FREEBIND / IP_BINDANY bind socketops

Allows to bind to an address even if it is not actually (yet or ever)
configured. Fixes #238

Rationale:
https://www.freedesktop.org/wiki/Software/systemd/NetworkTarget/#whatdoesthismeanformeadeveloper

util/tcpsock/tcpsock.go

@@ -0,0 +1,27 @@
+package tcpsock
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"net"
+	"syscall"
+)
+
+func Listen(address string, tryFreeBind bool) (*net.TCPListener, error) {
+	control := func(network, address string, c syscall.RawConn) error {
+		if tryFreeBind {
+			if err := freeBind(network, address, c); err != nil {
+				return err
+			}
+		}
+		return nil
+	}
+	var listenConfig = net.ListenConfig{
+		Control: control,
+	}
+
+	l, err := listenConfig.Listen(context.Background(), "tcp", address)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	return l.(*net.TCPListener), nil
+}