transport/{TCP,TLS}: optional IP_FREEBIND / IP_BINDANY bind socketops

Allows to bind to an address even if it is not actually (yet or ever)
configured. Fixes #238

Rationale:
https://www.freedesktop.org/wiki/Software/systemd/NetworkTarget/#whatdoesthismeanformeadeveloper

docs/configuration/monitoring.rst

@@ -14,6 +14,7 @@ Prometheus & Grafana
 
 zrepl can expose `Prometheus metrics <https://prometheus.io/docs/instrumenting/exposition_formats/>`_ via HTTP.
 The ``listen`` attribute is a `net.Listen <https://golang.org/pkg/net/#Listen>`_  string for tcp, e.g. ``:9091`` or ``127.0.0.1:9091``.
+The ``listen_freebind`` attribute is :ref:`explained here <listen-freebind-explanation>`.
 The Prometheues monitoring job appears in the ``zrepl control`` job list and may be specified **at most once**.
 
 zrepl also ships with an importable `Grafana <https://grafana.com>`_ dashboard that consumes the Prometheus metrics:
@@ -30,6 +31,7 @@ The dashboard also contains some advice on which metrics are important to monito
       monitoring:
         - type: prometheus
           listen: ':9091'
+          listen_freebind: true # optional, default false